User:Ezgender

Introduction
Hi, I'm Ez! I made hundreds of pages of lists of genders, I created this Wiki, and I write resources about xenogenders, neopronouns & neolabels. Check out my resources, or follow me on other social media if you want!


 * Linktree
 * Tumblr
 * Instagram
 * Twitter
 * TikTok
 * YouTube

✨RBF

 * This generally applies to most of my social media. "DNI" means "do not interact," and "RBF" means "read before you follow." Both of these are online shorthands that are used by many MOGAI bloggers as quick and easy ways to display their boundaries. This is less relevant in more professional spaces. For more information, I suggest this resource right here.

Wikia-Specific FAQ
''' Before you ask a question: Have you read the Rules? Have you checked our page Guides? '''


 * Can I make a page?

A Wiki is a site for collaborative public editing, you don't need permission. Go ahead. Make sure that you've checked our guides for help!


 * Can you add this term I've made to the Wiki?

 I  specifically probably can't, just because I have a lot on my plate and many things that need my attention. You can use one of the page guides to create a page for it, or consider asking for help in the Discord or Forums.

Other FAQ

 * My general Ezgender-related FAQ is located over here, there's a lot of things on it.

DNI
This generally applies to most of my social media. Anyone can use my resources, that's what they're there for, but I just would prefer you not follow me/show up in my notes on any of my Tumblrs if you're on my DNI. This can make me very upset. (Most of the terms I work on have pages on the Ezgender Wiki, you can link to that if you want. If they don't have pages yet, maybe try archiving my original post in a web archiver and linking there.) ""I'm on your DNI, can I use this gender/term/flag/etc?""

- Well, yeah. These are real identities which have a level of separation from the boundaries I've set - While I did coin/work on these things, my coining it sort of just puts it out there in the world, and if someone comes across it and realizes "oh wow, that's ME" I can't necessarily make them. Un-be that, if that makes sense.

The only exception would be if someone who said they identified as a term was twisting it in a fashion to make it bigoted or predatory (which I have seen with some other terms, ex weirdos co-opting terms like amatopunk to try to make it about literal incest despite the definition and coiner being very clear that amatopunk is not that).

I disagree with a lot of statements made by coiners of terms or flags I identify with, but I can't really make myself. Not be that. Do not interact:

""What does this term that's on your DNI mean?""
 * Transmed/truscum/TERF/gender crit)/anti-MOGAI
 *  Proshipper/anti-anti/noMAP/NSFW ageplay 
 *  Panphobe, Aphobe 
 *  Anti endogenic/syskeeper 
 * TGCE/Stormy + Kindness-flags/atrosphel-void, rouge-the-bat/bi-lesbian/rougeagainstfanpol or defend them or anyone else on the NCB archive
 * Omegaverse
 * Heavily focused on LGBTQ+ flag discourse
 * Or if you allow/reblog/retweet from any of these groups. That includes the attitude of "I'm fine with them as long as they don’t hurt anyone!" or whatever.

- Check out the new FAQ section on my Carrd, I go into detail on what each means and why I've made the decisions that I have:

Other Boundary Things

 * Please don't call me "kin" or any derivative of it, especially the one ending in -innie. (I'm not anti-kin I have trauma relating to this word lmao)
 * I will probably not accept most Discord friend requests unless we know each other (like, we've been speaking in a server for quite some time)
 * I prefer not to be DM'd at random, if you need help from mods in the official server please use the ticket tool
 * I prefer to not be pinged for Discord replies unless it's particularly important
 * If I ever break a DNI/BYF page, it’s my own mistake not me trying to be an ass on purpose. My ADHD + plurality makes memory wonky sometimes. Let me know and I’ll fix it/apologize!
 * Keeping things concise is hard (ADHD again) but if something doesn’t make sense, feel free to ask me to rephrase
 * Requests for flags/coining/etc are ALWAYS open unless I state otherwise.
 * Sometimes I answer asks instantly, sometimes it may take me two weeks. Sorry for that. I’m never ignoring you because I hate you or something!
 * Transcribing images is very hard on my spoons ATM, I’m sorry. When I make original graphics I transcribe the text on them. If you ever transcribe something I make/reblog, feel free to send it to me and I’ll reblog it or add it to the post.
 * I’m not perfect, if I mess up somewhere, misrepresent an identity, etc, please talk to me about it so I can fix it/apologize!