Fraysexual

Fraysexual (also known as Ignotasexual) is a sexual orientation defined as when someone only experiences sexual attraction towards those that they are not deeply connected with, and lose that attraction as they get to know the person.

It is an orientation on the Asexual Spectrum, and more broadly, the A-Spectrum. Fraysexual can be described as being "the opposite of Demisexual".

Fraysexual can be a sexual orientation on its own or can combined with other orientations. For example, one could be Fraysexual and Pansexual, meaning that when one does experience sexual attraction it's towards people of any gender.

Fraysexual people after losing their sexual attraction can still have other attraction, provided they are not also Fray- in that specific area.

Etymology
The prefix fray- comes from the Old English word for "Stranger".

Ignota- comes from the Latin word ignotas, meaning "Unfamiliar".

History
Fraysexual was coined alongside Frayromantic by EdensMachine (now deactivated) via tumblr blog MOGAI-Archive (also deactivated) sometime around July 19, 2014.

Ignotasexual on the other hand was coined by AroaceSafeSpace sometime around or before December 14, 2014.

Flags
Fraysexual shares its flag with Frayromantic, the flag made by tumblr blog PrideArchive on July 28, 2014. Blue and cyan are meant to represent strangers or acquaintances, with blue as the complementary color to red and yellow, which symbolize romantic and platonic love respectively. The white stripe represents a lack of attraction, and the grey stripe represents confusion about romantic attraction.

Coining
"Ignotaromantic, Ignotasexual.

Demiromantic/Demisexual is the orientation of someone who experiences romantic/sexual attraction only after an emotional bond is made.

The opposite of which would be losing attraction after an emotional bond is formed-which I’ve seem some talk about-but there isn’t a word for it yet.

‘Ignotas’ is Latin for ‘unfamiliar’ so I’m suggesting the terms ‘Ignotaromantic’ and ‘Ignotasexual’ for these identities-literally being attracted to the unfamiliar but in proper explanation it would be ‘a person who experiences romantic/sexual attraction to a stranger and loses this attraction if they create an emotional bond.’

Ignotaromantics/Ignotasexuals are similar to Type C on AVEN."

- AroaceSafeSpace