Lutter

-Lutter is a suffix for when one is attracted to a certain gender but struggles with that attraction for whatever reason. This could be due to trauma or other bad experiences but it doesn't have to be.

Some examples of -lutter identities are:


 * Fialutter/Finlutter - the struggle with attraction to fia/fin/woman
 * Mialutter/Minlutter - the struggle with attraction to mia/min/men
 * Xialutter/Xinlutter - the struggle with attraction to xia/xin/xenics
 * Nialutter/Ninlutter - the struggle with attraction to nia/nin/neutral/non-binary
 * Multilutter - the struggle with attraction to all genders attracted to

History
This term was coined on the 20th of July 2021 by Tumblr user icarusoblivion.

Flags
The flags were created on the 26th of July 2021 by Tumblr user icarusoblivion.

Etymology
Lutter is the French word for struggle.

Resources

 * The Official Coining Post
 * The Coiner's Blog