Potenromantic

Potenromantic is an orientation where someone only feels romantic attraction to those who could potentially be attracted back to them by the definition of their orientation. For example; a potenromantic homoromantic woman is only attracted to another woman when the former knows that the latter is WLW. The sexual equivalent is potensexual.

It may be seen as the opposite of proculromantic.

Etymology
The prefix Poten- is from the word potential, which describes the core aspect of potenromanticism.