Xumgender

 is a term for never being satisfied with your gender due to constant self-doubt or identity issues, causing one to compulsively search and seek out something that fits as perfect as possible–to find “the gender” or “the one truth”–though one will never be found due to one’s neurotype, because words will never be able to describe it, and/or its own properties paradox itself. This frequent anxiety and doubt even causes this gender to feel imperfect to the individual.

Definitions

 * Xumgender: Never being satisfied with your gender due to constant self-doubt or identity issues, causing one to compulsively search and seek out something that fits as perfect as possible–to find “the gender” or “the one truth”–though one will never be found due to one’s neurotype, because words will never be able to describe it, and/or its own properties paradox itself. This frequent anxiety and doubt even causes this gender to feel imperfect to the individual. - Pride-Color-Schemes, 2016


 * Xumgender, also known as pendogender is the state of never being satisfied with ones gender, no matter how well it fits, due to self-doubt or identity issues. This causes one to compulsively search and seek out something that fits even better- to find "the gender" or "the one truth"- though one will never be found due to A) One's neurotype. B) Words will never be able to describe one's gender. C) One's gender is paradoxical. This inability to find a "one true gender" frequent causes anxiety and doubt and can even cause the label xumgender to feel imperfect to the individual. - Chaoticcylinder through the LGBTA Wikia, 2019

Flags
Mod Hermy's Xumgender flag was designed to make the original flag look like a more standard pride design. Neopronoun's Xumgender flags were based off of Lucellion's and Beyond-MOGAI-Pride-Flag's OCD pride flags.