Hookgender

 is a gender that feels as though it is searching for other genders, hooking them and trying to pull them in. This may be a successful or unsuccessful process, and the gender may feel present until all of the right terms are found.

Etymology
The term comes from the root word hook.

Definitions

 * a gender that feels like searching for other genders, hooking them and trying to pull them in (successfully or unsuccessfully) until you find the right term(s). can be applied to anything - examples are hookgirl, hookfluid etc. - pinkfruitgender, 2021