The pomoamorous flag
Pomoamory refers to someone who denies or does not fit any labels for a particular kind of amory. A pomoamorous individual rejects, has an aversion to, or does not fit any amory labels such as polyamorous, ambiamorous, syndeamorous, monopoly etc.
The pomoamorous flag with the pi symbol
This can either be because one finds the typical way in describing their amory ("I prefer x relationships", "I would typically want to be in a x relationship", "I do not want an x relationship") is not applicable in their sense of identity, or because one feels that the current vocabulary within the LGBTQ+ community cannot accurately describe their sense of amory, or that one does not wish to describe it. A pomoamorous individual may or may not want a non-monogamous relationship, but is not interested in specifying whether they want one. They do not want or need a specific label.
The pomoamorous flag with no symbol
History
The term pomoamorous was coined by Alaric to help its headmate, Nova, describe stars amory.[1] The flag was made on the same date, and has the following meaning.
- Dark blue for not labeling amory or rejecting labels
- Light blue/Cyan for monoamorous relationships
- White for inclusivity
- Green for honesty and loyalty in any relationship, whether it be monoamorous or polyamorous
- Light yellow for polyamorous relationships
- Orange-ish yellow for having no amory label that describes someone who identifies as pomoamorous