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[[File:Autochorissexualflag.png|thumb|220x220px|The aegosexual flag.|link=https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/File:Autochorissexualflag.png]]
[[File:Aegosexual.jpg|thumb|An alternate aegosexual flag.|link=https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/File:Aegosexual.jpg|alt=]][[File:Aegoalt.png|thumb|An alternate aegosexual flag.|link=https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/File:Aegoalt.png|alt=]]
[[File:Alt agosexual flag .png|thumb|Alternative Aegosexual flag by Pringles ketchup the second|200x200px|alt=]]
[[File:Alt aego pride flag by sleeping cosmos.png|thumb|An alternate aegosexual flag by sleeping_cosmos]]
[[File:An Alternate Aegosexual Flag by ALDA.png|thumb|An Alternate Aegosexual Flag by ALDA]]
The romantic equivalent is [[aegoromantic]].
*Someone who feels sexual attraction, but does not want to participate in sex.<ref>https://kyethekoolguy.tumblr.com/post/161589828686/sexual-and-romantic-orientation-masterpost</ref>
An alternate version was created on August 8, 2020, by xeno-aligned<ref>https://xeno-aligned.tumblr.com/post/625867415855808513/a-member-of-the-aegosexual-community-helped</ref> which kept the triangle symbolism but used the colors of the alternate flag.
The fourth flag was coined by [[User:Cryptocrew|Cryptocrew]] on February 22nd of 2021. The shades of purple represent sexuality while the black triangles represents a wall in between ones sexuality and themself. The grey X represents the greyasexual spectrum.
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''Autochoris'' meaning "sexuality without identity".|exclusivity=None}}
'''Aegosexual''', previously known as '''autochorissexualAutochorissexual''', is aan [[Micro-Label|micro-label]] on the [[Asexual Spectrum|asexual spectrum]]identity that describes those who have a disconnection between themselfthemselves and the subject of arousalsexual fantasies or attraction. Aegosexuals may have sexual fantasies, view porn and other sexual content, or masturbate, but they generally feel little to no [[Sexual Attraction|sexual attraction]] and typically do not desire to have sex with another individual.person, Someor commonexperience aegosexualsexual experiencesattraction include:that are atypical with an [[Allosexual]]'s. ▼
[[File:Aegosexual alt.png|thumb|An alternate aegosexual flag by Cryptocrew.|alt=]]▼
Some common Aegosexual experiences include:
▲'''Aegosexual''', previously known as '''autochorissexual''', is a [[Micro-Label|micro-label]] on the [[Asexual Spectrum|asexual spectrum]] that describes those who have a disconnection between themself and the subject of arousal. Aegosexuals may have sexual fantasies, view porn and other sexual content, or masturbate, but they generally feel little to no [[Sexual Attraction|sexual attraction]] and typically do not desire to have sex with another individual. Some common aegosexual experiences include:
*Enjoying or getting aroused by sexual content, but lacking the same enthusiasm for a sexual relationship in real life.
*Masturbating, but being [[Sex-Indifferent|indifferent|neutral]] or [[Sex-repulsedRepulsed|repulsed]] by the idea of having sex with another individualperson.
*Fantasizing about sex, but the aegosexual individualperson is not involved, they are only a disembodied observer viewing it from a third-individualperson perspective, and not from the first individualperson.
* Fantasizing about sex, but envisioning only other individualspeople, such as celebrities or fictional characters.
*Fantasizing about sex, but it involves generic, faceless individualspeople, not specific individualspeople.
* Fantasizing about sex, but through the perspective of another individualperson rather than as one's actual self.
*Fantasizing about sex, but only imagining oneself, and no other individualspeople.
*Fantasizing about sex, but it is idealized and unrealistic. Adding realistic elements to the fantasy makes the idea of sex less appealing or even repulsive.
* Perceiving someone as "hot" or recognizing someone as sexually attractive, yet not seeing the appeal of having sex with the individualperson in real life. The aegosexualAegosexual individualperson may instead prefer to fantasize about them.
*Enjoying erotic content but getting turned on by the situation or relationship dynamics in the story lines rather than by one's attraction to the individualspeople.
Aegosexual is an identity under the [[Acespec|Ace Spectrum]], and more broadly, the [[Aspec|A-spectrum]].
==Pronunciation==
[[File:aegosexual.ogg]]
*[''AY-go-sEk-shuul'']
==Etymology==▼
Dr. Bogaert derived the term from the phase "autochorisAutochoris", meaning "sexuality without identity".▼
Aego- is derived from Latin words with aA- meaning "without" and egoEgo meaning "myself", making the whole word translate to "sexual without myself".▼
==History==
The term autochorisexualAutochorisexual was coined by Dr. Anthony Bogaert, a psychologist who specializes in human sexuality, in 2012.<ref>https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/22576251</ref>. He classified it as a paraphilia since, at the time, asexualityAsexuality was considered a psychological disorder. This caused controversy with the name, with some not caring about the negative association and others choosing to reclaim the word while others chose to identify with the label "aegosexualAegosexual". The term "aegosexual" was coined by Tumblr user Sugar-And-Spite, in November 2014<ref>http://sugar-and-spite.tumblr.com/post/101478696189/autochoris-is-a-bit-of-a-mouthful</ref>. The term is meant to have the same meaning as "autochorisexual", but formulated with Latin roots, making the word easier to pronounce and discarding of the orientation's original perception as a paraphilia.
The term "Aegosexual" and it's "Aego-" prefix was coined by tumblr user Sugar-And-Spite on November 1, 2014.<ref>[https://sugar-and-spite.tumblr.com/post/101478696189/autochoris-is-a-bit-of-a-mouthful Aego- coining by Sugar-And-Spite]</ref> The term is meant to have the same meaning as "Autochorisexual", but formulated with Latin roots, making the word easier to pronounce and discarding of the orientation's original perception as a paraphilia.
Some aegosexuals were also uncomfortable with Bogaert's definition of autochorisexual, which remained the widely used definition for aegosexual. Other definitions were coined as a result, with varying takes on whether or not aegosexuals experience sexual attraction. Some of these definitions are as follows:▼
▲Some aegosexualsAegosexuals were also uncomfortable with Bogaert's definition of autochorisexualAutochorisexual, which remained the widely used definition for aegosexualAegosexual. Other definitions were coined as a result, with varying takes on whether or not aegosexuals experience sexual attraction. Some of these definitions are as follows:
*Liking the idea of sex, and/or enjoying sexual content, but not actually experiencing attraction or wanting to have sex with anybody.<ref>https://kyethekoolguy.tumblr.com/post/161589828686/sexual-and-romantic-orientation-masterpost</ref>▼
*A individual who enjoys the idea of sexual relationships but does not wish to have one. (Associated with a disconnect between the individual and a sexual target/fantasy)<ref>https://invincible-asexual.tumblr.com/post/118611718367/a-few-more-terms</ref>▼
*Feeling attraction and desire only for situations that do not involve one's self.<ref>https://web.archive.org/web/20150905123406/https://pride-flags-for-us.tumblr.com/post/128023708253/is-there-an-autochrissexual-flag/</ref>▼
▲*Liking the idea of sex, and/or enjoying sexual content, but not actually experiencing attraction or wanting to have sex with anybody. A individualperson who enjoys the idea of sexual relationships but does not wish to have one. (Associated with a disconnect between the individualperson and a sexual target/fantasy)<ref>[https://invincible-asexual.tumblr.com/post/118611718367/a-few-more-terms Invincible-Asexual's definition of Aegosexual]</ref>
==Flag==▼
▲*LikingSomeone thewho idea of sex, and/or enjoyingfeels sexual contentattraction, but does not actuallywant experiencingto attractionparticipate or wanting to havein sex with anybody.<ref>[https://kyethekoolguy.tumblr.com/post/161589828686/sexual-and-romantic-orientation-masterpost KyeTheKoolGuy's definition of Aegosexual]</ref>
The aegosexual flag is nearly identical to the asexual flag, but it possesses a triangle with an inverted order of colors. The triangle represents a "reverse" of asexuality, as aegosexuals are likely to be initially perceived as sexual individuals. The color associations remains the same with the asexual flag, with an extra meaning added to the grey stripe; along with [[Demisexual|demisexuals]] and [[Greyasexual|greyasexuals]], it represents the in-between of arousal.▼
▲*Feeling attraction and desire only for situations that do not involve one'sone’s self.<ref>[https://web.archive.org/web/2015090512340620160210043652/httpshttp://pride-flags-for-us.tumblr.com:80/post/128023708253/is-there-an-autochrissexual-flag/ Pride-For-Us' definition of Aego]</ref>
==Related Terms==
An alternate flag was designed by an unnamed "member of the aegosexual community" on or before August 4, 2020.<ref>https://aegosexualpride.tumblr.com/post/625536937576595456/a-member-of-the-aegosexual-community-helped</ref> The color meanings are as follows: Purple represents community, likely coming from the asexual community. Gray represents the entire [[Asexual Spectrum|spectrum]] of asexuality. Teal represents a disconnection between the self and attraction. Black represents asexuality.▼
===Subsets===
*[[Aegofictosexual]]
===See Also===
▲==Etymology==
*[[Sex-Averse]]
▲Dr. Bogaert derived the term from the phase "autochoris", meaning "sexuality without identity".
*[[Sex-Ambivalent]]
*[[Orchidsexual]]
*[[Aegoromantic]]
*[[Aego-]]
==Gallery==
▲===Flag===
▲The aegosexualAegosexual flag iswas nearlycreated by tumblr user [https://hunterinabrowncoat.tumblr.com HunterInABrownCoat] on July 23, 2014.<ref>[https://hunterinabrowncoat.tumblr.com/post/92665703641/id-like-to-humbly-put-forward-this-flag-as-a Aegosexual flag by HunterInABrownCoat]</ref> The colors are identical to the asexualAsexual flag, but it possesses a '''triangle''' with an inverted order of the colors. The triangle represents a "reverse" of asexualityAsexuality, as aegosexualsAegosexuals are likely to be initially perceived as sexual individualspeople. The color associations remains the same with the asexualAsexual flag, with an extra meaning added to the '''grey''' stripe; along with [[Demisexual|demisexualsDemisexuals]] and [[Greyasexual|greyasexualsGreyasexuals]], it represents the in-between of arousal.
▲An alternate flag was designed by tumblr user AegosexualPride (now deactivated) and helped by an unnamed "member of the aegosexual community" on or before August 45, 2020.<ref>[https://aegosexualprideaegosexual-moments.tumblr.com/post/625536937576595456625593434099580928/a-member- AegosexualPride's Aegosexual flag, Reblog of Aegosexual-the-aegosexual-community-helpedMoments]</ref> The color meanings are as follows: '''Purple''' represents community, likely coming from the asexualAsexual community. '''Gray''' represents the entire [[Asexual SpectrumAcespec|spectrum]] of asexualityAsexuality. '''Teal''' represents a disconnection between the self and attraction. '''Black''' represents asexualityAsexuality.
Two alternate versions were created on August 8, 2020 by [https://xeno-aligned.tumblr.com Xeno-Aligned] which kept the triangle symbolism of the original flag but used the colors of the alternate flag.<ref>[https://xeno-aligned.tumblr.com/post/625867415855808513/a-member-of-the-aegosexual-community-helped Xeno-Aligned's Aegosexual flag versions]</ref> One version had the purple on top and teal at the bottom, the other had the teal on top and the purple at the bottom.
<gallery>
File:Aegosexual.png|The main Aegosexual flag (HunterInABrownCoat, July 2013.)
▲[[File:Aegosexual alt(2).png|thumb|An alternate aegosexualAegosexual flag by(AegosexualPride, CryptocrewAugust 2020.|alt=]])
File:Aegosexual (3).png|A redesign of the previous flag (Xeno-Aligned, August 2020.)
File:Aegosexual (4).png|A redesign of the previous flag (Xeno-Aligned, August 2020.)
</gallery>
===Coining===
<gallery>
File:Aego Coining.png|The coining of Aego-
</gallery>
{{Quote|'''Autochoris- is a bit of a mouthful…'''
…and was coined with intentions to use it to describe a paraphilia (NOT a sexuality), by someone who (despite notable and commendable contributions) is not himself asexual, nor does he remotely identify with the term he created.
Now, to sidetrack: I am not the only person to have had the “Yer a wizard, Harry!” moment of realization upon hearing the description of this term, that incredible relief of “Oh God, it’s not just me”. I’m not the only one to have spent years wondering what was wrong with me, why I felt this way, and what the hell my identity was, anyway. I give tremendous regards to Dr. Bogaert for his coinage of the term, and his definition of what many of us were experiencing without knowing how to explain it, or feeling comfortable enough to talk about it.
However, my gratitude to Dr. Bogaert does not erase my distaste for the unnecessarily long and unpronounceable word (choris or khoris?), nor does it mean I am any less upset and offended that he described my experience as a paraphilia. A paraphilia is an abnormal sexual interest, much like a fetish. And as we can see from the number of people who can relate, autochoris- is not abnormal. We are not broken, we are not strange, and we have lived our lives wondering what’s wrong with us. In my case, I’ve spent years already battling hatred from both sides; those who claimed asexuality does not exist, and my own mind, for claiming I couldn’t be asexual if I experienced sexual arousal. Enough is enough. I know I’m not the only one that’s taken years to get here and find where I belong. I’m not about to sit by and let some allosexual man tell me that what I’ve felt, worried about, and cried over for years is essentially a fetish. This is my sexuality, and I don’t want the word for it to take longer to say than the definition.
So! I saw a suggestion that someone who identifies with the definition of autochoris- to coin a new term, and I set to the task. Using my previous knowledge of Latin linguistics and a few websites, I made a list of possible terms, and narrowed down my favorite: aego- (AY-go or AI-go), as in aegosexual(ity) or aegoromantic(ism). This was drawn from the prefix a-, meaning without, and the word ego, meaning me or myself. Translated literally, aegosexual would mean “sexual without myself”, which is essentially the same translation as autochoris.
I don’t mean to be presumptuous and say that this is the only acceptable term for this sexuality. However, I am adamant that this be considered a sexuality, and due to my belief that it should be treated as such, I felt it needed a term to describe it as a sexuality, not as a paraphilia. I’m open to suggestions for other terms, and I still have my list of possible terms and their meanings saved, if anyone would like to see them. Since autochoris- is still a new word, I’d like to see it reclaimed and accepted as a sexuality, with a new word to brand it as such, before it’s dismissed by the ace/aro and LGBT+ community. I will not rest until it is classed as a full sexuality, and I fully believe that a new term is the first step towards making it so.|Sugar-And-Spite|Tumblr November 2014}}
▲Aego- is derived from Latin words with a- meaning "without" and ego meaning "myself", making the whole word translate to "sexual without myself".
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