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[[File:TumblrThey pbrxquItwZ1xzv69ro1Them 1280Lesbian.png|thumb|220x220px206x206px|The theyThey/them lesbian flag.]]
[[File:5stripetheythemlesbianThey Them Lesbian (3).png|thumb|220x220px|An alternative, 5 stripe they/them lesbianSimplified flag.]]
[[File:TumblrThey p9ruddoISL1xvyeh0o2Them 1280Lesbian (2).png|thumb|220x220px|An alternative they/them lesbianAlt flag.]]
[[File:TheythemlesbianflagThey Them Lesbian - Flower-lesbienne.jpgpng|thumb|AnotherA third alt they/them lesbian flag by flower-lesbienne.]]
[[File:They Them Lesbian (4).png|thumb|A fourth alt flag.]]
A '''they/them lesbian '''or '''theysbian '''refers to a [[lesbian]] who uses they/them [[pronouns]]. They/them lesbians may be women, [[Lunarian|woman-aligned]], or [[non-binary]]. The term can be used by any woman or non-binary person who is wlw ([[sapphic]]) or nblw and uses they/them pronouns. Those pronouns can be exclusive or one can be [[Multipronominal|multipronoun]]. It is a more specific form of [[Pronoun Non-Conforming|pronoun non-conformity]] and [[Crosspronominal|crosspronoun]] usage. It is a common lesbian experience to feel disconnected from womanhood due to womanhood often being defined by relationships with men. Similar to how lesbians might go by masculine/androgynous names, present as [[butch]], or otherwise [[Gender Non-Conforming|gender non-conforming]], a lesbian may refer to themselves by they/them to express this disconnect from their gender.